Get Your Groove On!

In case you are still checking out this blog, here is a link to my teleseminar about being single.

Get Your Groove On!
http://instantTeleseminar.com/?eventid=1970670

Be sure to check out my other blog www.yolandashoshana.blogspot.com, which is where I will be doing posts about being single, singelringen, etc

Rock single,
Shoshi
"Luscious Lifestyle Diva"

Love Sick

It has been awhile since I have posted on this blog…one reason is cause I have been super busy and the other reason was I was love sick for a bit. Being love sick threw me off course and I feel like I lost valuable time.

The update is lame and pretty much the same. I have tried to get over the King of Queens, but it has been so difficult for me. Every time I try to get over him, it seems like he does something to pull me back in (such as gets really jealous when another man talks to me). I have let him know that I am interested, however I have gotten no response. I am a firm believer in the fact that when men are interested they let you know. Right?!?! But then I did what I should not have done, I got a male point of view on my situation. That actually made since. I will spare you all of the details. The question is am I willing to wait for a man that may or may not eventually come and get me?

The most important thing that I learned or remembered is not to allow someone to steal my joy. I allowed myself to get caught up in the confusion and frustration of wondering what the King of Queens thinks/ feels about me. What I know for sure is that I rock! I am an amazing and interesting woman and if the King of Queens can’t see that, another man will. The hardest part about love is learning how to go with the flow. We want things to happen when we want them. What you must remember in the game of love is when you love yourself first, last, and always, you will always come out on top!

Rockin Single,
~Shoshi

Sassy Bean

I just found out about a new website called Sassybean (www.sassybean.com). The site is put together by Matt Titus, a matchmaker and relationship coach in Manhattan. He stills the beans on live, love, and relationships.

Take a peak when you can! It's a refreshing site compared to all of the others.

Rockin' single,
~Shoshi

Love and Money

Rockin' the ring as usual!

I am trying to set up two great people right now cause I think they would be perfect for each other. One of them is hesitate because out of all things... the other person is way successful and has defiantly been blessed with an abundance of material things. I would have never though this would be an issue.

I talked to my mom about it 'cause for the life of I don't get it, what is wrong with being set up with someone who gets paid what they are worth? Artist types get so weird about money issues, they never think money is important, but complain about who they can't afford this and that. Oy vey!

Money does not automatically make people evil or materialistic. Rich folks need love to!

~Shoshi

It's Almost A Wrap!

Yesterday my friend, Adrienne, and I began to realize that the year of the soul mate is REALLY almost over. It's a wrap folks. Oy vey! We didn't know if we should panic or simply think that anything can happen in the next few days. Honestly, I am to tired of it all to think about it..though come New Year's eve it will be front and center if I don't have anyone to kiss. : O

While talking to Adrienne I did remember that I need to be incorporating "the pact". You may have heard of it. Speak to at least three different men during the day, even if they are strangers cause it increases your chances of meeting a man. There is truth in that. The more men I talk to the more men I attract. If you are finding it hard to meet men...I'm telling you incorporate the pact into your day and notice the difference.

Til next time,
~Shoshi

Clean House

I am getting ready to write my gratitude letter for 2008, so of course I am thinking about men.

I have cleaned house on all men to make way for new ones! LOut with all the old crap, in with the men. That also means I am done with my flirtatious dead end with the King of Queens.I think I have come to the conclusion that it isn't me he is interested, he just likes the attention.

There are three new men on the horizon. I'll call one D, the other A,then there's the comedian. As for D, it's complicated with him, but he is so into me and he is not being shy about it. He also sends me text messages in the middle of the day saying how beautiful I am. Now that I like! I just don't know if getting invloved with him would be a good thing.

As for A, he is artsy and hip. My interest is growing. The more I learn about him, the more I like. He may be a bit of a dog, I am trying to figure it out...and the comedian I met last night. He's a cutie pie! Tall just like I like him, witty, can hold a good conversation, but the question is, is he funny? There is nothing hotter than a an on top of his game. We exchanged info..let's see if he calls.

Brunch in Chelsea

Brunching in the city. Don't I look cute rockin' my singelringen!?!
The neighborhood may not have been ideal for a single woman to be picked up in, but you never know when love is gonna strike.

~Shoshi