Get Your Groove On!

In case you are still checking out this blog, here is a link to my teleseminar about being single.

Get Your Groove On!
http://instantTeleseminar.com/?eventid=1970670

Be sure to check out my other blog www.yolandashoshana.blogspot.com, which is where I will be doing posts about being single, singelringen, etc

Rock single,
Shoshi
"Luscious Lifestyle Diva"

Love Sick

It has been awhile since I have posted on this blog…one reason is cause I have been super busy and the other reason was I was love sick for a bit. Being love sick threw me off course and I feel like I lost valuable time.

The update is lame and pretty much the same. I have tried to get over the King of Queens, but it has been so difficult for me. Every time I try to get over him, it seems like he does something to pull me back in (such as gets really jealous when another man talks to me). I have let him know that I am interested, however I have gotten no response. I am a firm believer in the fact that when men are interested they let you know. Right?!?! But then I did what I should not have done, I got a male point of view on my situation. That actually made since. I will spare you all of the details. The question is am I willing to wait for a man that may or may not eventually come and get me?

The most important thing that I learned or remembered is not to allow someone to steal my joy. I allowed myself to get caught up in the confusion and frustration of wondering what the King of Queens thinks/ feels about me. What I know for sure is that I rock! I am an amazing and interesting woman and if the King of Queens can’t see that, another man will. The hardest part about love is learning how to go with the flow. We want things to happen when we want them. What you must remember in the game of love is when you love yourself first, last, and always, you will always come out on top!

Rockin Single,
~Shoshi

Clean House

I am getting ready to write my gratitude letter for 2008, so of course I am thinking about men.

I have cleaned house on all men to make way for new ones! LOut with all the old crap, in with the men. That also means I am done with my flirtatious dead end with the King of Queens.I think I have come to the conclusion that it isn't me he is interested, he just likes the attention.

There are three new men on the horizon. I'll call one D, the other A,then there's the comedian. As for D, it's complicated with him, but he is so into me and he is not being shy about it. He also sends me text messages in the middle of the day saying how beautiful I am. Now that I like! I just don't know if getting invloved with him would be a good thing.

As for A, he is artsy and hip. My interest is growing. The more I learn about him, the more I like. He may be a bit of a dog, I am trying to figure it out...and the comedian I met last night. He's a cutie pie! Tall just like I like him, witty, can hold a good conversation, but the question is, is he funny? There is nothing hotter than a an on top of his game. We exchanged info..let's see if he calls.

Same 'Ole

Every time I feel like I am at a dead end with the King of Queens he does something to makes me feel like there is light at the end of the tunnel. I will spare you all the details, cause it the typical confusing stuff that men do. With him it is truly baby steps... but he is totally worth it!

I didn't sell the Reyes painting at the holiday sale I participated in. So, I have to as myself what should I do with it..give it to him or try to unload it another way.

I had quite a few men hit on me last week, but nothing to get excited about. I know that in 2008 I need to spend more time around men. Since my company is for women, I find myself always in the company of women. I gotta get some balance going...

I am launching an online radio show at the end of the this month called "Luscious Living". I want all my guests for February to be related to love, sexuality, singles, love coaches, etc. If there is a topic you want covered drop me a line.

Lusciously single,
Shoshi

99% Love Rating

According to my Facebook horoscope, my love rating for the day is 99%. I'll believe it when I see it.

I think that it's time that I start from scratch when it comes to men. None of them are "manning up”. The only one worth anything is the King of Queens and I am beginning to think it may be a dead end. Not sure what to think.

The good news is that according to a recent study New York City is the place to be if you are single. There is a hot event on the 20th for Black and Latino singles. I may have to suck it up and go. Got to be in it to win it.

Singlicious,
~Shoshi

Reyes

Tonight as I was looking through my art work and I found a painting that I did for someone who was very special to me, his name was "Reyes". At one point I thought he was my soul mate. We had a connection that could not be denied.

I felt clear that he was the man that I wanted to spend my life with and the person I wanted with me on my life journey. A week after I felt this clarity, we had a huge argument and haven't talked since. It was a stupid fight and I honestly can't even remember what it was about.

My heart was broken, but I was forced to take a real good luck on what I want from my Mr.Right. While wonderful, Reyes was not the one. I never would have guessed that we would not be together, funny how the year has changed for me.Every once in a while I miss him, but what I miss is our friendship.

Sassy and single,
~Shoshi

The King of Queens

Oh love..

I finally figured out what to call the man who takes my breathe away...The King of Queens. He's a total Queens boy (with the NYC accent, that I LOVE).

Yesterday morning the King and I had a long moment of gazing at each other. It rocks my world when he looks at me the way that he does. I am not sure what is going on in his head. He is a cancer and they are soooo hard to read and they do not open up much ( sigh). Later on in the day someone gave me a birthday card and inside was a photo that she had taken of me and the King. I look tiny next to him since he's a tall guy and I am 5'0" ( and loving it!). I crave my men tall..

The lunch date I was suppose with Paul didn't happen. I saw him and he was acting all coy. He called out to me and EXPECTED me to walk over to him. Not! I so don't have time for bs, he missed his chance. I think what may be up is, he may not be single and he is trying to be sneaky..just the feeling I keep getting when I see him.

A nice guy named Luc gave me his number today. I was taken by surprise. He told me that he wanted to tell me something, but he was to nervous..I may call him, I haven't decided. I have never thought of him in a romantic way...though he smelled fabulous today which totally turned me on. Nothing like a man that smells delicious. Not to mention that he speaks French. Meow!

Lusciously single,

~Shoshi

Single in Gotham

Yesterday my friend and I got into a discussion about men in NYC. She thinks men in NYC are unavailable, I totally disagree. Yes, it is a different experience dating in Gotham, but just because a woman has not found the one, I don't think all the blame should be put on men. Of course men have more option in NYC, but so do women.

It take two to tango and serious self exploration to get a grasp on why one keeps attracting the same type of people. The laws of attraction can't denied, you attract what you put out. Period. So, if a woman/men thinks that the opposite sex is not available then they will not be.

I did not call the Latin Jewish guy back. I think to much time passed, now I could care less about him. Still waiting on my lunch date. And as for the guy who takes my breathe away ( I really need to figure out what to call him don't I?)...it is not clear what is happening so I will not comment until I figure it out myself.

Lusciously single, ~Shoshi

Singelringen

I could not figure out what I get myself for my birthday ( November 22), then inspiration hit: the Singelringen! (www.singeringen.com)

When I first heard of the Singelringen I thought it was a clever idea. We single folks do need a way to shout out that we are on the market..what better way than a ring?!?!

Four days ago, I sauntered myself down to Hus on Christopher Street in NYC to take a look at the rings. A helpful and handsome Swedish guy helped me pick out my ring. If memory serves me correctly the ring comes in 4 sizes, I am a number 1. I didn't love it at first, but decided to get it anyway. As I walked away with my ring, he called out "enjoy your single time". Oh hell to the yes I will!

I don't know if my attitude changed after I bought the ring or what, but after I left the store I had men smiling at me and speaking to me as I walked in the streets. Today I got a lunch date...

I have been telling everyone about my new ring, cause now I LOVE it. I had to get use to the color (I tend to only wear black). When I mentioned to someone that I have had a little bit more male attention since I got the ring, we joked about how I should blog about my new adventures with the Singelringen.

Bada bing, bada boom, it's on...cause I'm Singelringen in the city!

Meow,
Shoshi
Luscious Lifestyle Diva
www.yolandashoshana.com